Love at the First sight

On my flight back to home .. i was more nervous than happy .. every Indian girl I saw in the flight , a flight from London which has more Indians than usual, reminded me about those old Hindi Songs ".... Isiliye mummy nain meri , tujhe chai pe bulaya hai" ( Thats why my mom has called you for tea...in other words to meet the guy her daughter is dating) . Some of them were really good looking nice face, beautiful eyes and long black hair. A sight that can take you in a flash back ... with colours not black and white ..a picture that reminds you of the good old days with perfect love , romance marriage and Kids. A nice happy sight and you start thinking . But then there is a catch you cant just look at the face, and then the unholy journey starts where the brain stops thinking and manliness starts "thinking" . You go deep down in those oceas where doing a Breast stroke was your dream from childhood. All the movies that you used to watch when parenst were away came back into your present like a flash light. But its all love , love at first sight with just a couple chozen ones every day.

The plane lands and so the hope of talking to at least one of them for more than one minute. People are always sadist , they love to interrupt just when you are about the crack the best of the lines ever said in the history of love , love at first sight. And again you go home thinking at least should have taken the phone number.

Not even a week passes and you are already done , 3/3 failed to impress you and you think just three more to go. But why dont I get to meet those chozen ones whom I left on the way back. Arrange marriage is such a nice flexible , strong system which gives both men and women the equal right to chooze sometimes just after a meet of 2 min. It does nt happen in the most cases but than again some people are again the chozen ones. Their fate is decieded even before they had eaten the first "laddoo" ( a sweet) and with that sweet taste in the mouth .

Now comes the official blind date , with the whole family . Have you ever talke on the climate of Dilli for 2 hrs and ya same thing again and again sometimes from the father and sometimes from the brother. You are in one of the most un-cool clothes cause your mom watned you to look youger and slimmer , and then the climate discussion. Then someone will start boasting about theie relatives in US , huh when will they understand we all have some Indians everywhere , we are the gloabal ones:) .

Then after a while you are given order and request depending on how irritted your parents are with you as you are not showing the best of your moods. You go on the side table and talked to the most clothed women you have ever seen in the hot weather of 45degrees. Man how to check ourt if she has the best you again dreamt from when you were a child who had just learnt swimming. The deal is cancelled cause she was looking for someone more sensible and mature and thast the roumour you hear when as per "they" say you cancelled the deal. its funny .

One more think dont forget to lie if you dont , you dont wanna face your parents again. They will make you feel like you are a Ram who just turned into a Ravan .

Next week one more experience gets added to your credit. You feel wiser and smarter. You feel focussed and realise the whole reason why Mahatama Ghandhi fought for freedom . Its the best thing that can happen to anyone and everyone again thinking of those beautiful faces i saw .. taking my flight again....